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Haiku
May 6,2019The Sound of Play
No greater delight,
My kids playing together.
May it last decades!
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Haiku
May 5,2019Not Great at Church
Kids not great at Church,
I’ll keep bringing them. It’s good,
Planting the seeds now.
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Haiku
May 4,2019Brunch
How great is brunch? Yum!
I could eat breakfast all day.
Nothing stopping me.
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Haiku
May 3,2019Son Comes Home
Two day delays. Sad!
He landed, he’s really here.
Welcome home, my son!
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Haiku
May 2,2019Waiting for Son
Woke up, checked phone. Bad!
Son’s flight cancelled. Tomorrow?
This cannot last, right?
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Haiku
May 1,2019Where Is He?
Son’s flight home cancelled.
They said weather, it was fine.
Never trust forecasts.
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Haiku
April 30,2019Errands with Two
Errands with two kids,
So easy, don’t have to try.
I’m a pro, people
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Wrapped Around Her Finger
April 30,2019The job of being a father is under appreciated today. Our society spends too much time attacking people that we’re envious of. A by-product has been the sidelining of men writ large. We’ve chipped away so much at the essence of masculinity that men find little direction in their lives. A lack of expectations leaves us confused and adrift. This is a dangerous formula for men who take on the mantle of fatherhood.
I have two daughters, and I am aware of how much is riding on our relationship. The way they see the world and interact with other people is though our relationship. If they feel loved, safe, and cared for, they will grow into healthy, well adjusted women. If they feel forgotten or unimportant, they will muddle through life questioning themselves. They will live life mired in self-doubt.
Fatherhood is best understood through the relationship between a man and his daughter. Men play a vital role in their marriages, families, and the lives of their children. Their active presence is a necessary component to a stable home.
It’s why I’ve never liked to hear about how daughters have their daddy’s wrapped around their fingers. To me, that statement misunderstands the role of the father. I know the importance of setting clear and consistent boundaries because of my love for them.
True strength, true masculinity, requires authentic servant leadership. I serve my daughters because I love them. I maintain a clean household because its our shared living space. I give them treats and affection because they are special to me and I love them. That’s also the reason I put them in timeout and enforce our family rules.
In a society that prefers abdication, I refuse to budge. These are my children, and I will lead them, and I will serve them.
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Haiku
April 29,2019Transformation Complete
Son on vacation,
Project time: reorganize.
Mission accomplished.
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Haiku
April 28,2019Sick Kids, Redux
Kids sick all month. What?
This is madness, it must end!
Not today, I guess.
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Haiku
April 27,2019Lakeside Afternoon
Work party by lake,
Daughter really wanted in.
Full lifeguard duty.
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Haiku
April 26,2019Goodbye, Son
Boy is off on trip,
See you next week. Now, to work!
So much to get done.
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Haiku
April 25,2019Can You Help?
I work alone. But,
Kids can be great helpers. Huh.
Never would have guessed.
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Haiku
April 24,2019Sorry, Buddy
Grampi’s flight cancelled.
Sorry, buddy. Tomorrow?
He got over it.
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Haiku
April 23,2019Packing Error
Five year old packs things,
Not good at planning. LEGOs,
Friends, toys. No clothes. Oops.
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Haiku
April 22,2019Menu Planning
Hard to plan meals, shop.
Takes time. Better use service.
eMeals and Walmart!
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Purple Heart
April 22,2019Dotted across our nation are monuments, trails, and highways dedicated to recipients of the Purple Heart. The United States Postal Service has a Purple Heart forever stamp in regular production. The Purple Heart is a military decoration awarded to service members who sustain injuries in battle against the enemy. It’s right that we commemorate and memorialize the sacrifice of our service members who are wounded in battle.
The Purple Heart traces its roots back to George Washington and the Continental Army, the latest iteration being around since the early 1900s. The design of the Purple Heart itself is beautiful. A golden medal shaped like a heart, with a deep purple background, and a profile portrait of George Washington in the middle.
I once read a quote by an Admiral in which he reframes the idea of battlefield injuries. In his mind, when service members who come back from war having lost limbs, we shouldn’t see them as having lost a limb. Rather, we should see that they gave that limb for our freedoms.
Every day, our brothers, sisters, parents, friends, and neighbors get out of bed thousands of miles away from home and stand of the front lines to defend our American way of life. We owe them a profound debt of gratitude.
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Haiku
April 21,2019Easter
Late Easter, now here.
Steak for dinner and party.
Nice celebration.
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Haiku
April 20,2019New Lawnmower
My first time buying,
A new lawnmower. It starts!
Stores upright, too. Cool.
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Haiku
April 19,2019Dominos Opens
New delivery,
Dominos opens nearby.
Third customer. Hello!
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ChetCast
Episode 75: Playdough
April 19,2019It’s the one year anniversary of ChetCast! I caught up with all three kids at the breakfast table to talk about a year of podcasting and their playdough creations.
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Haiku
April 18,2019Panera
Not sure how happens,
Panera is not cheap. Kids,
Here, have my baguette.
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Haiku
April 17,2019Toddler Explores
Inflatable pool,
It’s a makeshift ball pit. Fun.
Toddler likes climbing.
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April 17,2019
North Korea Says It Test-Fired New Tactical Guided Weapon - WSJ
Mr. Kim visited an air force unit where he instructed pilots to “take off and perform difficult and complicated air combat actions,” state media said.
This makes Kim look cartoonish. He’s anything but.
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April 17,2019
Drafts app is the perfect cross-platform app. Fast enough to catch an idea before it slips away.